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		<title>Comment on More like FailBook, amiright? by Jen</title>
		<link>http://forkinme.org/life/?p=862&#038;cpage=1#comment-5047</link>
		<dc:creator>Jen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 May 2010 02:42:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>mom&#039;s try desperately to follow trends because they&#039;re in denial and want to feel young again. they want to be noticed and seen as more than just &#039;mom&#039;. i&#039;m still baking the bun and i already feel old.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>mom&#8217;s try desperately to follow trends because they&#8217;re in denial and want to feel young again. they want to be noticed and seen as more than just &#8216;mom&#8217;. i&#8217;m still baking the bun and i already feel old.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Unkempt Promises by Somerleigh</title>
		<link>http://forkinme.org/life/?p=844&#038;cpage=1#comment-5046</link>
		<dc:creator>Somerleigh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 17:14:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The man who shot John Lennon also thought he was Holden Caulfeild.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The man who shot John Lennon also thought he was Holden Caulfeild.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Just &#8217;cause it&#8217;s better doesn&#8217;t mean it&#8217;s better by Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://forkinme.org/life/?p=832&#038;cpage=1#comment-5045</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Dec 2009 18:35:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve been getting stuck in that spiral myself. Only I can&#039;t tell if it&#039;s because I don&#039;t want to do things, or if it&#039;s because I feel like I can&#039;t. I can only do so much in 5 minutes time before I start having pain and have to sit down again. So I&#039;ve turned into a hermit yet again. I don&#039;t even go outside to check the mail anymore. You should know that your influence still hangs around me to this day. 
{I&#039;ve been laying around in boxers for 4 days. I&#039;ve got you beat.}</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been getting stuck in that spiral myself. Only I can&#8217;t tell if it&#8217;s because I don&#8217;t want to do things, or if it&#8217;s because I feel like I can&#8217;t. I can only do so much in 5 minutes time before I start having pain and have to sit down again. So I&#8217;ve turned into a hermit yet again. I don&#8217;t even go outside to check the mail anymore. You should know that your influence still hangs around me to this day.<br />
{I&#8217;ve been laying around in boxers for 4 days. I&#8217;ve got you beat.}</p>
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		<title>Comment on It&#8217;s All Relative by Diane</title>
		<link>http://forkinme.org/life/?p=848&#038;cpage=1#comment-5044</link>
		<dc:creator>Diane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Dec 2009 09:35:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>1) Stop posting just as I&#039;m checking my feed.

2) Nobody knows what &quot;Don&#039;t touch the stove or you&#039;ll get burned&quot; means until they touch the stove. Nobody wants to touch the stove after the first time, but every now and again they accidentally do. Nobody expects you to hold them back from the flames.

3) Heres a quarter. Now flip it and assign your reality.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1) Stop posting just as I&#8217;m checking my feed.</p>
<p>2) Nobody knows what &#8220;Don&#8217;t touch the stove or you&#8217;ll get burned&#8221; means until they touch the stove. Nobody wants to touch the stove after the first time, but every now and again they accidentally do. Nobody expects you to hold them back from the flames.</p>
<p>3) Heres a quarter. Now flip it and assign your reality.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Unkempt Promises by Diane</title>
		<link>http://forkinme.org/life/?p=844&#038;cpage=1#comment-5043</link>
		<dc:creator>Diane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 09:47:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>During my first semester of college, I had a classmate from Brazil. She was really frustrated by &quot;How are you?&quot; Questions, because for Americans she found it was just a way to say hello. It means very little to most people, and often when people ask these questions they then wait for a short answer so that they can follow up with talking all about themselves. She found it really upsetting. In her culture, when people would ask &quot;How you are&quot;, they genuinely wanted to know what was going on in the person&#039;s life- details like events that happened and how the person felt about what had been happening around them, or about their thoughts on current events.  

Then again, some people don&#039;t undersand that you can enjoy a person&#039;s company without ever saying a word. And that you don&#039;t need to talk every day in order to remain friends.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>During my first semester of college, I had a classmate from Brazil. She was really frustrated by &#8220;How are you?&#8221; Questions, because for Americans she found it was just a way to say hello. It means very little to most people, and often when people ask these questions they then wait for a short answer so that they can follow up with talking all about themselves. She found it really upsetting. In her culture, when people would ask &#8220;How you are&#8221;, they genuinely wanted to know what was going on in the person&#8217;s life- details like events that happened and how the person felt about what had been happening around them, or about their thoughts on current events.  </p>
<p>Then again, some people don&#8217;t undersand that you can enjoy a person&#8217;s company without ever saying a word. And that you don&#8217;t need to talk every day in order to remain friends.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Now Add Some Cheese by beel</title>
		<link>http://forkinme.org/life/?p=827&#038;cpage=1#comment-5042</link>
		<dc:creator>beel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 17:31:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent Post.

Here are my thoughts, for what they&#039;re worth...

1) regarding the bankruptcy thing, this is, to me, the most important message to get out there to Joe Sixpack and Jane Winebox: This issue isn&#039;t about yucky poor people that your kids don&#039;t go to school with the children of, or homeless people that you step over on the sidewalk.  This issue is about YOU. Or at least the alternative you that falls through a medical trapdoor and suddenly is in an ENTIRELY different demographic, almost a different universe, than you&#039;re in right now. There, but for one slip of medical fate, go I. Or you. Or any of us. I know this is obvious to any of us who can add two and two and get four, but someone needs to connect the dots for the other 95% of the population.

2) regarding health expenditure. I knew that one, but what I don&#039;t yet get is how we can actually SAVE money doing this, other than to either make up future numbers and show a savings relative to them, or semi-nationalize healthcare, which will have a huge distribution impact. I mean, if we create a private option and offer it up without profit, then how can we be sure that 1) it actually is a better option, what with the gubmint involved and all, and 2) the current healthcare and insurance industry doesn&#039;t entirely collapse as a result. I don&#039;t mind them fading out quietly, going the way of the dodo-bird, what have you, but with the economy on a sort of tenuous ground, sudden moves, sudden changes... could be a domino effect of some sort. Just want to watch out for the unintended consequences.

3) No arguments there. With one exception: I find that, with internal medicine, we (as a people, as a culture) need to get out of the habit of prescribing and taking pills for everything. We get into this endless loop:
&quot;Doctor says I need to eat less and exercise more, and quit smoking&quot;
&quot;So what did you say?&quot;
&quot;I said Hell No!&quot;
&quot;So what did he do?&quot;
&quot;He gave me a pill. With my prescription benefit, it&#039;s only $5/month.&quot;

My point here is that we need to utilize health care less, in general, by focusing on preventive care, wellness, etc. Health care utilization isn&#039;t necessarily a good metric. How do we measure how well we&#039;re successfully AVOIDING the Doctor? And then how do we split that out to  &quot;because I can&#039;t afford it&quot; and &quot;because I&#039;m effectively staying healthy on my own&quot;? It&#039;s important to measure and rely on outcomes, but we shouldn&#039;t just measure and rely on the ones that are easiest to measure.

4) Let&#039;s not set the bar too low, then, eh? I mean, how will we guarantee that we&#039;re controlling or decreasing costs, and at the same time improving delivery? I&#039;ve never seen a system so bad that we can&#039;t make it a little, or even a lot, worse. Let&#039;s watch out for that too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent Post.</p>
<p>Here are my thoughts, for what they&#8217;re worth&#8230;</p>
<p>1) regarding the bankruptcy thing, this is, to me, the most important message to get out there to Joe Sixpack and Jane Winebox: This issue isn&#8217;t about yucky poor people that your kids don&#8217;t go to school with the children of, or homeless people that you step over on the sidewalk.  This issue is about YOU. Or at least the alternative you that falls through a medical trapdoor and suddenly is in an ENTIRELY different demographic, almost a different universe, than you&#8217;re in right now. There, but for one slip of medical fate, go I. Or you. Or any of us. I know this is obvious to any of us who can add two and two and get four, but someone needs to connect the dots for the other 95% of the population.</p>
<p>2) regarding health expenditure. I knew that one, but what I don&#8217;t yet get is how we can actually SAVE money doing this, other than to either make up future numbers and show a savings relative to them, or semi-nationalize healthcare, which will have a huge distribution impact. I mean, if we create a private option and offer it up without profit, then how can we be sure that 1) it actually is a better option, what with the gubmint involved and all, and 2) the current healthcare and insurance industry doesn&#8217;t entirely collapse as a result. I don&#8217;t mind them fading out quietly, going the way of the dodo-bird, what have you, but with the economy on a sort of tenuous ground, sudden moves, sudden changes&#8230; could be a domino effect of some sort. Just want to watch out for the unintended consequences.</p>
<p>3) No arguments there. With one exception: I find that, with internal medicine, we (as a people, as a culture) need to get out of the habit of prescribing and taking pills for everything. We get into this endless loop:<br />
&#8220;Doctor says I need to eat less and exercise more, and quit smoking&#8221;<br />
&#8220;So what did you say?&#8221;<br />
&#8220;I said Hell No!&#8221;<br />
&#8220;So what did he do?&#8221;<br />
&#8220;He gave me a pill. With my prescription benefit, it&#8217;s only $5/month.&#8221;</p>
<p>My point here is that we need to utilize health care less, in general, by focusing on preventive care, wellness, etc. Health care utilization isn&#8217;t necessarily a good metric. How do we measure how well we&#8217;re successfully AVOIDING the Doctor? And then how do we split that out to  &#8220;because I can&#8217;t afford it&#8221; and &#8220;because I&#8217;m effectively staying healthy on my own&#8221;? It&#8217;s important to measure and rely on outcomes, but we shouldn&#8217;t just measure and rely on the ones that are easiest to measure.</p>
<p>4) Let&#8217;s not set the bar too low, then, eh? I mean, how will we guarantee that we&#8217;re controlling or decreasing costs, and at the same time improving delivery? I&#8217;ve never seen a system so bad that we can&#8217;t make it a little, or even a lot, worse. Let&#8217;s watch out for that too.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Now Add Some Cheese by Aunt Bobbie Sue</title>
		<link>http://forkinme.org/life/?p=827&#038;cpage=1#comment-5041</link>
		<dc:creator>Aunt Bobbie Sue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 20:03:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I got an email invitation to check out a book and loved the email so much I checked out the author. IMHO, he&#039;s worth reading: http://www.andynowicki.blogspot.com/

He reminds me of you, Drew.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got an email invitation to check out a book and loved the email so much I checked out the author. IMHO, he&#8217;s worth reading: <a href="http://www.andynowicki.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.andynowicki.blogspot.com/</a></p>
<p>He reminds me of you, Drew.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What took you so long? by drew</title>
		<link>http://forkinme.org/life/?p=793&#038;cpage=1#comment-5040</link>
		<dc:creator>drew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 13:13:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t know.  When are you coming to visit?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know.  When are you coming to visit?</p>
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		<title>Comment on What took you so long? by Diane</title>
		<link>http://forkinme.org/life/?p=793&#038;cpage=1#comment-5039</link>
		<dc:creator>Diane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Jun 2009 06:29:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You bought the house?

Will you be living there when I come visit?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You bought the house?</p>
<p>Will you be living there when I come visit?</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Long Strange Trip by Aunt Bobbie Sue</title>
		<link>http://forkinme.org/life/?p=780&#038;cpage=1#comment-5038</link>
		<dc:creator>Aunt Bobbie Sue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 13:34:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;ve inspired me! Check out my new farmblog at http://roberta.tripod.com/farmblog/.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;ve inspired me! Check out my new farmblog at <a href="http://roberta.tripod.com/farmblog/" rel="nofollow">http://roberta.tripod.com/farmblog/</a>.</p>
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